Ok I am going to be very transparent ....up until about 10 years ago I was always getting second "looks" from men definitely and more than not insecure jealous women. I cared for way too long what I needed to wear to solicit the appropriate compliment since clothing and style were so connected to what I did and who I was. The looks are virtually no more....and I don't care.....I AM FREE........I still dress with a specific and unique attitude but most importantly I need to feel physically comfortable and confident. Maybe this is part of aging but I do know when I speak people listen, and that friends has not a thing to do with how I look but what years of observing, absorbing, and being open have taught me. Go whine somewhere else that you are invisible......perhaps you aren't what you once were, but hate to use a cliche.......I am aging like a fine wine ...........Do Not Whine.....keep being relevant .......FU to AI developed primarily by men
I’m 70 and although I don’t dress or act my age, the silver hair gives me away. My invisibility is real but situational. It can be dispiriting but I have learned to use it to my advantage. You can get away with a lot when you are invisible.
Ok I am going to be very transparent ....up until about 10 years ago I was always getting second "looks" from men definitely and more than not insecure jealous women. I cared for way too long what I needed to wear to solicit the appropriate compliment since clothing and style were so connected to what I did and who I was. The looks are virtually no more....and I don't care.....I AM FREE........I still dress with a specific and unique attitude but most importantly I need to feel physically comfortable and confident. Maybe this is part of aging but I do know when I speak people listen, and that friends has not a thing to do with how I look but what years of observing, absorbing, and being open have taught me. Go whine somewhere else that you are invisible......perhaps you aren't what you once were, but hate to use a cliche.......I am aging like a fine wine ...........Do Not Whine.....keep being relevant .......FU to AI developed primarily by men
in misogynistic society's..........xxxs
I’m 70 and although I don’t dress or act my age, the silver hair gives me away. My invisibility is real but situational. It can be dispiriting but I have learned to use it to my advantage. You can get away with a lot when you are invisible.